BY STAN KONTOS
Did you know that what you say about yourself to yourself you will eventually believe and then behave in a way to bring it to fruition? And likewise what you say to others will affect their belief about themselves and if they accept it, it will change them (for better or for worse)? You see, words have the power to do good or to do evil – it is a universal law of life and is as true as the force of gravity (if you throw a ball up, it will come down). It is so very important to be careful and diligent with what comes out of our mouth and then, in time, teach others to do the same. What we say has energetic force and will affect our subconscious mind and the subconscious mind of another. This is particularly true if you have children for they accept everything you say and believe about them, about life, about money, about education, and about the world.
If we want to make our world a better place and if we want to make the world of others a better place, then we need to take control of what comes out of our mouth. Learn to listen to yourself and be highly aware of what you say. When someone asks you how you are going, do you say “Not bad” or do you say “I am great thanks” ? The latter is always of a more positive person. When you are having a challenge with money do you say “It’s hard making money ”or do you proclaim “This is easily fixed – I just need to create more cash”. The latter person is always the person that lives more abundantly.
You see, what you say does count and does make a difference. What you say will eventually become your truth for changing our world is done by one word at a time….it all begins with our language. What we say is a direct reflection of how we think. It is so easy when I coach someone to see where they are heading in business and life – from their language. And one of the key things every coach does is to assist a client in changing their language. When language changes, it is an indicator that thoughts have changed.
Friends, if you want to change your life and your career, then you must change the way you speak about these areas. And if you want your kids and friends to be more successful and abundant, then you need to speak favour into their lives. Realise that words have the power to create good or evil – it is your choice what effect you have onto your life and the lives of people around you.
I encourage you to continually be aware of your language, aim to hang out with positive people (come along to breakfast at the next level www.nextlevelbreakfasts.com.au where you will meet many positive people). Who you hang around with on a consistent basis will be who you become most like. And when you are aware and change your speech to be empowering you will attract more & more positive people into your life. That’s right, when you focus and do good to yourself and others, more good will come to you – this is how we attract good things.
I wish you the very best and hope you continue to enjoy the journey of personal development with us at SOL Results.
Live with passion, stay on your life’s purpose, and always be at peace.
His areas of passion include:
- Coaching: Business, Executive and Personal
- Mentoring: Leaders, Managers and Management teams
- Therapy for rapid improvements in stress and personal blocks
- Leadership Development
- Life Enhancing Seminar Programs teaching Success Strategies and Personal Empowerment
Stan is an entrepreneur with business interests in various states across Australia.
Stan focuses on continuous and never ending improvement of himself and his teams of partners and associates as well as selfless contribution to others. He is an inspiring and motivating speaker, author, coach, and entrepreneur. He desires to expand people’s lives and to expand his charitable quests.
Best wishes to you as you live a life of passion, purpose and peace as an open minded progressive human being.
Stan is considered to be one’s “ultimate” life and business coach.