47 – Stay grateful & let synchronicity show you the way


Have you ever wanted something (a new house to make your home, a car, an investment property, a friendship, a cause to become a part of) but not sure if it is the right thing to do? I certainly have been in this situation many times. In times when you really want something, but are not sure if it is the right thing, you’ve got to go deep within you, (your heart, or, commonly known as a gut feel) as there are the answers as to whether something is right for you or not.

My discovery over time is that if it is meant to be, it will be. Of course, you need to put in the effort (take action), however, things always “flow” when they are meant to be. When you have to continually go against the grain, and at the same time, do not have  a good feel about a desired goal, then generally it is not meant to be and it is best to walk away as its time has not come. But when you really desire something and have a good heart or gut feel about it, and it keeps coming back to you or flows nicely toward you, then generally it is meant to be.

I want to encourage you to firstly set goals that inspire you. Don’t set goals just to keep up with others or to showcase how good you are. Rather, set goals that have come from within. When the time is right, they will flow toward you and it is at this time that you should “Step Up” and take action toward claiming them.

There is a wisdom that says “Faith without action is dead”. Hence, “faith requires action” to be manifested into reality.

So, next time you notice a desired goal come into your life, look for signs of “synchronicity”. That is, it begins to flow toward you and that with your own action, it keeps coming back or keeps getting closer and closer. Let synchronicity be your guide that it is meant to be.

We often hear stories of people who meet and marry and they both say “It was meant to be. We just clicked and felt we were meant for one another”, such a relationship is a classic case of synchronicity. So it is also your relationship with other goals in your life – your dream home, your dream car, and any other thing that your soul desires to experience in this life journey.

Begin today being more open minded and on the lookout for when goals are coming toward you – be prepared to claim them – step up and take affirmative action. This is how dreams turn into reality.

There are universal laws that apply to the journey of life and synchronicity is one of them. Let the Law of Synchronicity bring more good into your life. Stay in a state of gratitude at all times (I was once told be grateful for the little things in life, and the big things will take care of themselves) and you will attract more good. Good things always get attracted to good thinkers – those that live in a state of gratitude.

I wish you all many blessings, claim them when you see them coming toward you.

If you are in Adelaide, come along to Breakfast at the Next Level www.solresults.com/nextlevelbreakfasts/ and hear from other successful people and notice how grateful they are for everything in their life. And as you listen to them being interviewed, notice how their life’s success was a series of synchronicities.

Live with passion, always stay on your life purpose, and stay at peace.

Stan Kontos 

As South Australia’s foremost authority on “Peak Life Performance” and “Leadership Psychology”, Stan has a passion for the development of Human Potential through the use of Rapid Change Technologies.
Stan is a prolific reader of books and material on self empowerment and has attended numerous programs around the world on personal development, management, marketing, public speaking, and wealth creation. He is a worldwide accredited NLP Trainer (Neurolinguistic Programming).

His areas of passion include:

  • Coaching: Business, Executive and Personal
  • Mentoring: Leaders, Managers and Management teams
  • Therapy for rapid improvements in stress and personal blocks
  • Leadership Development
  • Life Enhancing Seminar Programs teaching Success Strategies and Personal Empowerment

Stan is an entrepreneur with business interests in various states across Australia.

Stan focuses on continuous and never ending improvement of himself and his teams of partners and associates as well as selfless contribution to others. He is an inspiring and motivating speaker, author, coach, and entrepreneur. He desires to expand people’s lives and to expand his charitable quests.

Best wishes to you as you live a life of passion, purpose and peace as an open minded progressive human being.

Stan is considered to be one’s “ultimate” life and business coach.