57 – The importance of the right relationships in your life


Who you hang around with most of the time is who you become most like. In this article, I am referring to your “peers” (friends, work colleagues, associates). When you develop a peer network, you create an unconscious connection with these people. Your unconscious desire is to remain in harmony (rapport) with these people as that is what brings us joy in life. We all enjoy good harmonious relations. However, the relations you have in your life are the biggest factor to the way your life evolves. Yes I will repeat this – the relations you have in your life are the biggest factor to the way your life evolves. WOW, that is significant. If you have healthy relationships with positive aspirational, successful, balanced people , you will also unconsciously adopt these traits.

If you desire to have good health, you need to value good health, and the people you hang around with on a consistent basis will  influence you here. Similarly, if you value a good marriage or partnership, then the people you hang around with need to give it the value it deserves and be showing good leadership in this area. Did you know that if you want lots of money and wealth, then the people you hang around with need to be affluent, and if you want to be joyful and spiritual in nature, then the people you associate with also need to be seeking this state as well. Now I know you may not find one person that has all of these traits, however you need to look at who you want to become and to ensure there are people with these strengths of character in your regular (daily) environment as they will influence you unconsciously. Who you hang around with on a consistent basis, you will become most like. It is so true.

I encourage you to reflect on your environment and make some choices on how you will improve it. Perhaps make it a goal for 2020 to bring in some new friendships that will positively influence you in the direction of your chosen destiny.

One of those environments is our Breakfast at the Next Level, whereby we bring great guests and highly motivated people together, to learn about getting more out of life. Checkout our website and come along to our next breakfast event. If you have not been lately, the SOL Results team invite you to attend, we look forward to welcoming you!

I encourage you to live a life with passion, purpose and always be at peace.

Stan Kontos 

As South Australia’s foremost authority on “Peak Life Performance” and “Leadership Psychology”, Stan has a passion for the development of Human Potential through the use of Rapid Change Technologies.   Stan is a prolific reader of books and material on self empowerment and has attended numerous programs around the world on personal development, management, marketing, public speaking, and wealth creation. He is a worldwide accredited NLP Trainer (Neurolinguistic Programming).

His areas of passion include:

  • Coaching: Business, Executive and Personal
  • Mentoring: Leaders, Managers and Management teams
  • Therapy for rapid improvements in stress and personal blocks
  • Leadership Development
  • Life Enhancing Seminar Programs teaching Success Strategies and Personal Empowerment

Stan is an entrepreneur with business interests in various states across Australia.

Stan focuses on continuous and never ending improvement of himself and his teams of partners and associates as well as selfless contribution to others. He is an inspiring and motivating speaker, author, coach, and entrepreneur. He desires to expand people’s lives and to expand his charitable quests.

Best wishes to you as you live a life of passion, purpose and peace as an open minded progressive human being.

Stan is considered to be one’s “ultimate” life and business coach.